Through my years of travelling and trying to find people to travel with (I didn’t start out with the confidence needed to travel solo!) I have found that there are lots and lots of people who say they want to travel, but almost none who are actually willing to do it. Most simply tell me that they “can’t” travel, for one reason or another. There are lots of articles out there describing reasons why people do travel, but I have found that there are less articles written about why people don’t. So I have compiled a list of some of the excuses that I have heard given as reasons why people “can’t” travel, and why these excuses are unfounded – in my opinion.
Reason #1 – I don’t have enough money!

You don’t need a small fortune!
People often see travelling as this big expensive thing, and it definitely can be. The problem that I find with these people is they often stop thinking once they’ve made that assumption, leaving themselves to wistfully dream about travel for the rest of their lives. Now, if your idea of travelling is staying in 5 star hotels, flying first class and eating out in the most famous and high-class restaurants then yes, travelling for you will be ridiculously expensive, good luck, I hope you win the lottery.
The good news is that travel doesn’t have to be like that. It doesn’t have to cost as much as the 5 star trip I mentioned clearly would. Lots of people around the world don’t travel like that, I certainly don’t. It just takes a bit of research to figure out how to travel more cost effectively. For example, using sites like http://www.workaway.info/ or https://www.couchsurfing.org/ are great ways to lessen the costs of your accommodations (and sometimes even food!) while at the same time getting a great cultural experience and meeting fantastic new people.
If you want to travel, you will need to start saving money. The point is that it doesn’t have to be tons of money. Start by putting just a little bit from each pay check into a special travel account. Once you have enough to do it – buy your ticket! A deadline like a flight is the best motivator to keep saving even more money. If you are young and have student loans or some other kind of loan and think that you will travel once you have that loan paid off then there is something you have to realize. Living in today’s society you may never reach a point when you are debt free. Or you might turn around and realize that time has gotten away from you and now you have that debt, and kids, and a house, and a dog, and… you had been planning on solo travelling.
There isn’t likely to be a time in your life where travel is easy. Where you suddenly have enough money and zero responsibilities. So whether you are a broke student or a middle-aged mother, if you want to travel then the time to do it is now. You just have to start saving, little by little, and make travel a priority. Save by not buying that new tv, or that new video game. (I know it’s hard, I want it too) Then when you have a bit of a money cushion saved, just go. Money will sort itself out, so long as you stay within your budget and research to get the best prices on food, lodging and day trips.
Reason #2 – The world isn’t safe!

While it’s true that some places are safer to travel to than others, the world is generally a very safe place. Think about it, most places that you would travel to have at the very least a fair few inhabitants, and those people, living in that place, are probably just like you and I. They are going about the business of living their lives. They don’t care about you and your travelling, they are just concerned about getting to the bus stop to pick up their kid, taking their wares to the market, or whatever other daily chore they are on.
But Morgan, pickpockets! Yes, yes, there are people out there whose daily chore is to rob you. However, that just means that when you are travelling you should keep your wits about you and try not to stand out too much like a sore thumb. You might already live in a place where there are known to be pickpockets, or someone in your home town might have suddenly taken up pickpocketing. If you found that out would you lock yourself up in your house, never to leave again? I’d hope not! Anyone, anywhere in the world who you don’t know is a potential pickpocket, just simply because you don’t know them. However they are also a potential best friend, soul mate, adventure buddy, companion, tour guide, life saver and a whole host of other things.
The most important thing to remember is that most of the people in the world are good people, and your life will be better for having met them. Just stay attentive when in a crowd or around people you don’t know (just like you probably would at home) and try to relax and enjoy the people you are meeting. If someone does swipe your wallet, it’s not the end of the world. You’ll still wake up the next day, and figure out how to keep on travelling.
If you are worried about larger scale issues like war, political upheaval or massive protests, then the best advice I can give you is to do your research before travelling. Know before you leave if the places you are planning on going are currently in the midst of some sort of dangerous happenings. If they are, and that worries you, then simply stay away. You can always go once the state of that particular place has calmed down. The best thing to do when researching where you want to go is to check out that countries travel advisories. If there is a significant travel advisory out for that country, then simply wait to go there until the advisory has been lifted.
Reason #3 – No one wants to go with me!

New friends I met in Vancouver!
This was not a reason that I heard from my friends when I asked them if they wanted to travel with me, it was the reason I was asking in the first place. This was my reason and it stopped me from travelling for quite a while. I thought that I couldn’t travel if I didn’t have anyone to go with me. So I was guilty of saying “I can’t” more times than I am proud to admit. Eventually I got the guts to travel and I came to realize very quickly that not only can I travel successfully without my friends, but travelling solo doesn’t equal travelling alone.
Everywhere you go when you are travelling solo you will meet new people, some of whom will become great new friends, others you will only hang out with for a day as you do an excursion together. Each and every one of the people you meet will become a part of your trip, and you will become a part of theirs. They will keep you from being lonely and will add a greater depth to your trip then you might have gotten if you travelled with people you already knew. When you’re alone you are forced to interact with new people, when you travel with friends you don’t have that same social need. There are of course pros and cons to travelling both solo and with friends. But not having the option to travel with friends should never stop you from travelling. I personally think that travelling solo gives a much richer travel experience, and as such is preferred.
So whether it’s money, fear or lack of travel minded friends that’s keeping you from travelling, I am here to tell you to just go ahead and do it. Yes it might be lonely sometimes, you might be living off a ridiculously small amount of money, and yes someone may steal your wallet. But in the end you will be glad you did it, and you will come home with fantastic new life experiences and new and amazing stories to tell. Then hopefully you will be able to convince any of your friends who have told you these same excuses to start their own travel adventure and finally open their eyes and see the world.